All our desire is a grain of wheat, Our whole personality is the milling-building. But this mill grinds without knowing about it. The millstone is your heavy body. What makes the stone turn is your thought-river. The stone says: I don't know why we do all this, but the river has knowledge! If you ask… Continue reading THE MILL, THE STONE, AND THE WATER by Philosopher Poet Rumi
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‘The Jar with the Dry Rim’ by Sufi poet philosopher Rumi
The mind is an ocean I and so many worlds are rolling there, mysterious, dimly seen! And our bodies? Our body is a cup, floating on the ocean; soon it will fill, and sink …. Not even one bubble will show where it went down. The spirit is so near that you can t see… Continue reading ‘The Jar with the Dry Rim’ by Sufi poet philosopher Rumi
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Psychology of innocency of criminals
Why do we cry when we feel in guilty? when we do crime or violate some laws in result of our unconscious living than shall we still be punished or not? People, who have possessed with dense pain-body, are still responsible for their wrong-doing and act of being in guilty? In this class, we have… Continue reading Psychology of innocency of criminals
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How knowledge about myself important for greater listening skills ?
Last Sunday we had group video live class to explore questions such as: We are blind to certain sides of ourselves. we project the same qualities onto others that we deny in ourselves. Why some people keep a worthy idea hidden from their managers? Why some people keep their feelings hidden? Why we should identify… Continue reading How knowledge about myself important for greater listening skills ?
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Roots of sufferings of Women Deepest discussion on gender war
Last Sunday, I had group video coaching class on gender issues. We discussed couple of hot issues like: What is male and female energies? Why females have more openness and sensitive ? What is significance of balance energies between male and female ? Why millions of women were tortured and killed during last few centuries… Continue reading Roots of sufferings of Women Deepest discussion on gender war
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Why intimate relationships turn into Drama on feeding thoughts?
Last Sunday on 6th March, I organised a class for online course on recognition of pain-body. You can watch on the following link to go into details and find the answers of such questions as: Why our marriages are at risk to be failed most of the times? Why husband and wife relationship is sometime… Continue reading Why intimate relationships turn into Drama on feeding thoughts?
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How your childhood and parents experience shaped to become level of listener you are right now?
Stephen Covey says that in order to influence on other you must be empathic listener. However, for it is important how your childhood-parenting experience went through. You need to know how your parents caused you the level of listener you are today. This video explains this fact as several dimension to find out the realities.… Continue reading How your childhood and parents experience shaped to become level of listener you are right now?
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Does all such violent contents based movies are bad?
Today, I conducted a group coaching session on Zoom and Facebook on on-going topic of identification and managing Pain-body, on the idea narrated by Eckhart Tolle. It went very well and I have uploaded its video recording on this link.
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Difference between mind of a duck and mind of human being?
Eckart Tolle says in his book "A New Earth" that This dysfunctional thinking is what the body reacts to with negative emotion. The emotional component of ego differs from person to person. Unconscious assumptions create emotions in the body which in turn generate mind activity and/or instant reactions. In this way, they create your personal… Continue reading Difference between mind of a duck and mind of human being?
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Origin of emotions
Eckert Tolle says that •The physical organism, your body, has its own intelligence, as does the organism of every other life-form. And that intelligence reacts to what your mind is saying, reacts to your thoughts. So emotion is the body's reaction to your mind. You can join every Sunday this class session by click and… Continue reading Origin of emotions
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Emotional bank account and Four autobiographical responses
Communications experts estimate, in fact, that : 1)only 10 percent of our communication is represented by the words we say. 2)Another 30 percent is represented by our sounds, and 3)60 percent by our body language. In empathic listening, you listen with your ears, but you also, and more importantly, listen with your eyes and with… Continue reading Emotional bank account and Four autobiographical responses
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Introduction to advanced Listening Skills | Online Training Course
I have started a new online training course. Do you know that 40% listening is part of 100% communication in our everyday and business life. I invite you to join it and pass on this info to your friends, colleagues and those who can get benefits from it. This is advance learning for those who… Continue reading Introduction to advanced Listening Skills | Online Training Course
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How to repair Ego? |two dimensions of reality | Formless identity |Awareness who you are | Space, universe and Consciousness
We finished our online course last Sunday. 1- Last episode covered key areas of our seen and unseen world. 2- More importantly, how to diminish ego through various methods and techniques.How to consider two dimensions of realities i.e. Materialist or seen world and spiritual or unseen? 3- What is essence of our true identity as… Continue reading How to repair Ego? |two dimensions of reality | Formless identity |Awareness who you are | Space, universe and Consciousness
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Dreams | Perceptions are reality ?|You are Consciousness | surrender | Going beyond Limitations | Week 6 | Online Course | Maratib Ali Shad
Today, I conducted a great class session as group online coaching. We learnt and read various sources about the subject such as: This world-Life is a merely dream? Who is dreamer ? Where contents of all these dreams come from ? Why non-resistance is key of salvation of problem of individuals and humanity Why we… Continue reading Dreams | Perceptions are reality ?|You are Consciousness | surrender | Going beyond Limitations | Week 6 | Online Course | Maratib Ali Shad
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“Rediscovering Self – who truly I am?” Online Course
On 31st 2021, I started online video class room course on Zoom and Facebook page about rediscovering self - who truly I am. Today It was its fifth class session and still two to three classes remains. I invite you to join each or all remaining class as it still lot of intellectual and spiritual… Continue reading “Rediscovering Self – who truly I am?” Online Course
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Moments of Now | Past and Future | The paradox of Time | Elimination of Time
Are you confused about concept of Time? Why does Time control our lives? Why we are victim of illusion of Time? Does Time exist ? Do Past and Future exist really? What is relationship between my Ego and Time? How and why to live in present moment? What is power behind Now? We had a… Continue reading Moments of Now | Past and Future | The paradox of Time | Elimination of Time
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Love Hate Relationships Understanding opposite gender psychology
On 5th Sept 2021, I started a brand new group Coaching series on Relationships especially Husband and Wife or Boyfriend and Girlfriend or between partners. Here is Episode No. 1 with key notes bullet points along with video recording. Do you have feelings of being victimise ? Do you have conflicts of other opposite gender… Continue reading Love Hate Relationships Understanding opposite gender psychology
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Love and Fight between Man and Woman | Romantic & Addictive Relationships
Today, I conducted an intense group coaching live online session on Zoom and Facebook group and I think it is worth to share with you to access its video recording and key notes as: Why we become addicted of the things, like smoking, Technology, friend etc. Does addiction cause pain and unhappiness? Why people do… Continue reading Love and Fight between Man and Woman | Romantic & Addictive Relationships
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How can I recreate Life| Why to remove sufferings and fears (Life’s Holistic view) | Maratib Ali Shad
Is there any magic trick that we could remove sufferings and fears from my life? We as human being in modern age thinks that we are what our mind operates and control us. However, reality is mind is part of our whole being and existence. We as being controls our mind, our mind does not… Continue reading How can I recreate Life| Why to remove sufferings and fears (Life’s Holistic view) | Maratib Ali Shad
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Love heals ! Did you know?
Psychiatrist Dr. David Hawkins says that on the level of love, we are heartfelt, generous, nurturing, affectionate, steadfast, and forgiving. Love is protective, collaborative, uplifting, holistic, and gracious. It is characterised by warmth, gratitude, appreciation, humility, completion, vision, purity of motive, and sweetness. We are starting a new live group class series on ‘LOVE’. In… Continue reading Love heals ! Did you know?
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Why and How to build relationship free from pain, with unconditional love?
Psychiatrist Dr David Hawkins finds out that only 0.04% of the population experience the state of unconditional love. We live in very complex world of relationships with people and objects. Often we associate with them for selfish and egoistic fullfilment. Purity and sincerity between husband and wife, parents and children , Company and employees, politicians… Continue reading Why and How to build relationship free from pain, with unconditional love?
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Science, Rationality and consciousness (Part 2)
why science is incomplete paradigm to discover and contemplate with absolute realities about our life and cosmology. How we can see holistic view our life for true success with science and meta-physical realities with spirituality and consciousness. This is life changing class session and if you are enough courage to learn new paradigm of the… Continue reading Science, Rationality and consciousness (Part 2)
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Courage, being courageous means and consciousness Series (Part 1)
Recently I have started new series on Courage and its different spiritual dimensions, by Dr. David Hawkins with my captions and some interpretations. Here is episode 1 and its contents, key questions and video recording. Key contents: •How we can have great feelings of “ I can” •Why some people are more resilient ? •To… Continue reading Courage, being courageous means and consciousness Series (Part 1)
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Science of ‘Mind and Body’ Series – (Part 1/3)
Last Sunday, I conducted a session on my brand new series on 'Mind and Body' from Dr. David Hawkin's literary works. Here, I am sharing some key questions of which we explored answers. Do you know? • Does brain controls mind or Mind controls brain? Brain is origin of mind or Mind is origin of… Continue reading Science of ‘Mind and Body’ Series – (Part 1/3)
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9 Factors of “The 7 Habits” still relevant today?
Stephen Covey wrote a foreword note in 25th anniversary edition of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. There are 9 challenges of modern world but still 7 habits will remain habits for next 100 years and why ? In this episode, we will only explore following factors : 1- Fear and insecurity 2- Wants… Continue reading 9 Factors of “The 7 Habits” still relevant today?
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Origins of Fear, Reflections, shadow and Clouds of Fears – Part 4(b)
Key Points: 1) Take the same protective actions out of love rather than out of fear. 2) Each of us has within us a certain reservoir of suppressed and repressed fear. 3) fear attracts fear just as its corollary is true that love attracts love 4) The unconscious mind is not polite 5) The unconscious… Continue reading Origins of Fear, Reflections, shadow and Clouds of Fears – Part 4(b)
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Healing of the Fear| Power of LOVE | Loving Therapy| Lessons from David Hawkins|
If you are scared of something and have fears, they stop you to go further ahead in your life, you can watch this video that may help you. Key content: 1- Fear is pandemic 2- Case study 3- Fear is healed by Love 4- Love is letting go of fear 5- lessons from David Hawkins… Continue reading Healing of the Fear| Power of LOVE | Loving Therapy| Lessons from David Hawkins|
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Online Event Positive Emotions, Crisis, Healing the past by Maratib Ali Shad
Stephen Covey says in "The 7 habits of highly effective people" that "We are not our feelings. We are not our moods. we are not even our thoughts...." Last week we learning and shared about difference between thoughts and emotions and managing them. This week we will read and learn about : 1- How to… Continue reading Online Event Positive Emotions, Crisis, Healing the past by Maratib Ali Shad
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Is Buddha a lost or forgotten prophet of Muslims ? – Six Key research questions to the Muslim Intellectual World – a quest from post-modern Muslims
Spirituality is directly linked with various paradigms such Enlightenment, Ultimate reality, Personal development or purification of thoughts & hearts, Oneness of the universe, inner-Peace and even with knowing the true God. Siddhartha Gautma (500 BCE) transformed as Buddha in India/Chinese origin, is considered and world widely accepted as spiritual or philosophical inspiration across all civilisations… Continue reading Is Buddha a lost or forgotten prophet of Muslims ? – Six Key research questions to the Muslim Intellectual World – a quest from post-modern Muslims
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Happiness – Why some people live longer ? What factors are involved?
Main reasons to live longer: •Happiness •Nurturing •Genes •Life circumstances •How we think and act - our response Why Some countries are more happier? Why Some countries are more unhappy ? How we can measure happiness? Factors more important contributing to happiness. Can Money buy happiness? Why People of Denmark are more happier than other… Continue reading Happiness – Why some people live longer ? What factors are involved?
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Are you scared of death ?
Are you scared of death? People love to live longer but their lifestyle and thinking pattern and random motives do not allow their body to live longer. Longevity is something everybody must deserve except few among us why it is? Physical intelligence allows our longevity genes to keep working on. How physical fitness and exercise,… Continue reading Are you scared of death ?
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Where are you from? Identity theft ? Conscience level understanding Part 2
Does society give you identity or yourself? Are your Country, religion, language, gender, sex, disability your identity? Your identity is your various system inside your body, mind or heart? Your identity is reshaped by your nurturing or nature? What is possible best solution or understanding of identity crisis ? What is meant by surviving identities?… Continue reading Where are you from? Identity theft ? Conscience level understanding Part 2
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Hate your job? | Job dissatisfaction | Why Need Career Change?| Why How?| Maratib Ali Shad
Contents: 1- Why you need job or work or career? 2- Why do you want this job? 3- What are main causes of job dissatisfaction? 4- Why we’re facing a ‘Good Jobs’ crisis? 5- Why Personal mission statement is important? 6- How you can change your career step by step? 7- How you can combine… Continue reading Hate your job? | Job dissatisfaction | Why Need Career Change?| Why How?| Maratib Ali Shad
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Who am I? Physical or Spiritual Being?
Contents: 1- Our senses and physical world 2- What are meanings of facts? 3- External world and external reality 4- Relationships and universe 5- Inside me 6- Ego, superego and its development 7- Inside myself 8- Real vs Factual world 9- What is Spirit, soul, conscience? 10- Comparison between Ego and Spirit?
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Discover yourself Find your voice |Action, Thoughts, Emotions|Part 2|
Are you product of your actions? Are you product of your thoughts only?. or what you are due to your emotions?
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Part 3 Why Passion? Discover yourself Find your voice
Part 3 Why Passion? Discover yourself Find your voice How following aspects make huge impact in identifying to know Who I am ? 1- Social Mirrors (EQ) 2- Disempowerment / Empowerment 3- Relationships / Empathy 4- Passion/Fearless/Courageous
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Why, How and What to design year 2020 goals seriously (training module)?
Many people do not design their goals due to fear of failure actually they dont have exposure why to set life goals and stay with them ?
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Understanding the Success : What is success?
For many people, success is a very dear concept in life in contrast to the failure we can not generalize the idea of success, however, in order to understand what success should be understood, I am describing here. success can be defined in various ways and paradigms but the most popular image of success is… Continue reading Understanding the Success : What is success?
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15 points – Customer Service is not only limited to…
I would like to share with you that Customer Service is one of a great profession in all industries. Nowadays Customer Service is very challenging but so much potential to learn new skills and polishing skills. As like other trades, Minicab or Taxi industry has so many expectations from customer service agents like you and… Continue reading 15 points – Customer Service is not only limited to…
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Power of believes system or Paradigms
All things are possible to the person who believes they are possible. NAPOLEON HILL Believes system for man is like a network of billions of psycho-neuron cells that generate thoughts to make emotions so that their body can move independently to achieve something or act on in liaison spiritual intelligence. It is so powerful that… Continue reading Power of believes system or Paradigms
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6 steps to plan your year 2015 great
To plan a year is the best and ideal action for successful individual. These productive leaders design their mission and goals of life. It leads to some big milestones of their life. It is directly proportional to personal effectiveness, improving relationships, increasing wealth, achieving dreams and spiritual gratification. We can achieve these milestones in different but steady… Continue reading 6 steps to plan your year 2015 great
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A child shapes your character and personality and basically governs your whole life?
In today's domains of management gurus, psychology experts and biologists scientists are choosing their preferences from very interesting discussion that how much important nature or nurture in the success of an individual or there is other reality as well? In addition, how much important is actually, the age of childhood in shaping one's life. I… Continue reading A child shapes your character and personality and basically governs your whole life?
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Identify key Roles and Relationships of Life
Once you build your Personal Mission Statement, you are set on path of greatness and now depend how much you are stuck with it and live by it. Next step after development mission statement, you need to identify key and important people and functions in your life. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xIjS5gsTY9k Remember that balance life is key of successful… Continue reading Identify key Roles and Relationships of Life
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Personal Mission Statement, Let’s build
People and business professionals are struggling to maintain their all daily to-do list, tasks, emails and correspondences related to personal, family, Team, clients, community, projects, staff and associates. of course everyone is following some of time management formulas. which are not really source of their contentment. Effective Time Management is one of greatest challenges of today's world where everybody is extremely busy to… Continue reading Personal Mission Statement, Let’s build
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Leadership and Management Trainings – an Effective Paradigm
Preface - Is the business leadership subject of Management or it is covering all roles of life of an individual. Are we enough able to develop engaged and committed employees? Or do we see ourselves as great carer or parent? Are we enough self-aware that we are directly or indirectly connected with our cultural and… Continue reading Leadership and Management Trainings – an Effective Paradigm
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Signs to be on Path-of-Mediocrity or Failure
In today's world, everyone is running after success. They do not want to lose, yet they are eager to find methods and shorter and longer techniques to achieve success. In this scarcity world, most of people are not successful because their adopted wrong methods to achieve it. Sometimes, they can see and feel their desired… Continue reading Signs to be on Path-of-Mediocrity or Failure
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Paradigms are so powerful for change – Lets work it.
I often think about different behaviors of people in identical situations and I could never understand until I went through Human behavioral lessons from Prof. Stephen R. Covey. Basically, all people do behave in SEE-DO-GET pattern, it means what people get depend on what they do and what they do depends on how they see the world.… Continue reading Paradigms are so powerful for change – Lets work it.
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Stephen R Covey – Biography
Dr Stephen R born in 1932. He lives with his wife, Sandra, and their family in Utah; in the Rocky Mountains. Covey achieved international acclaim, and is perhaps best known, for his self-help book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. which was first published by Simon & Schuster in 1989 and has sold… Continue reading Stephen R Covey – Biography
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Stephen R. Covey Announcement
I cannot live without deep appreciation for Dr. Stephen R. Covey and his team for his series of works based on 'principle based leadership' and paradigms. The idea of morality and its association with current modern trends like pure divinity. In this materialistic and greedy environment Dr. Covey is being proven a voice of righteous. He already said, rephrasing, he does not teach or create works and ideas but only God, he is just conveying it. Regards, Maratib
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Professionalism is an attitude, for all roles of life
Many people live not as successful because they have divided life into misaligned different paradigms for personal life, family, office and social work or community. They believe that each of four have different things, settings and aspects of life so behaviors associated should be unlike and smartly. People assume that all roles of life have… Continue reading Professionalism is an attitude, for all roles of life
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